Selfology

Our earthly existence is filled with both hardship and joy.

When adversity comes to visit it can erode our optimism, convincing us that the issues we face cannot be overcome. In truth, there is no situation so dire, no challenge so great, and no choice so bewildering that it cannot be overcome.  We persuade ourselves all avenues have been closed to us or that our most conscientious efforts will come to nothing. The truth is, we are never without feasible options. The best course of action may be obscured by doubt, but there is always a solution. When we are honest with ourselves and grasp this simple fact, we can overcome anything because we will never stop looking for a solution to the challenges before us.

Self-trust combined with a sturdy plan is the ultimate antidote to adversity. As difficult as the obstacle seems, it is no match for the love of a supportive universe that’s been part of your life since the day of your birth. Try not to let fear misguide you. When you think this way you’re not looking for solutions and only finding obstacles and reasons not to take action.

You are capable. Dedicate yourself to the creation of some form of resolution and soon you will be surprised to discover that paths that were once closed to you miraculously open. Even if all you can do is change your perspective to turn an impediment into an opportunity to grow, you will have found the hope that is an inherent element of all hardship.

Remind yourself that your destiny is a product of your own creation. Even when it seems you have nowhere left to turn, there is a solution waiting for you. The only insurmountable obstacles are the ones you create in your own mind — and these can only exert power over you if you let them.

Uncertainty will always be a part of your existence, but perseverance and mindfulness will never fail to see you through to the other side of hardship where joy can thrive. Try and remember that no matter what life places at your feet, there is absolutely no situation that cannot be resolved with time, love, and friendship.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *